Monday, May 12, 2008
Secrets of the Valleyyyyyyy...
At least it is humorous in hindsight. I guess. :)
That weekend, a classmate and I went to Aqaba, Jordan's only port and beach town in the south. It is very close to Eilat, Israel and Saudi Arabia. Aqaba was actually very cool. It is extremely touristy, therefore it is nice and well-kept. Normally I despise tourist traps and any place that is overloaded with old British people and Asians with funny hats and face masks, but tourist sites in Jordan have an element of freedom that is not present in other places. What I mean by this is that you can relax a bit more and get away with doing more things that wouldn't go over as well in parts of Amman or villages. For example, wear a tank top out, stay out late, etc. I'm sure they don't like it, but the locals in these places generally seem to be used to tourists coming in without regard to certain cultural sensitivities. I think it is just a more relaxed place in general; even Jordanians that were there seemed less rigid than in other areas. Aqaba still has an element of weirdness to it because it is in Jordan, but it seemed more normal to me than where I live in Amman. Women and families were out late at night in the streets and souqs loading up on nuts and bedding because it is very cheap there. There just seemed to be much more street life later at night, whereas Amman seems to die after a certain time. It is a really beautiful place, though. The sight of the Red Sea with a backdrop of sandstone mountains almost looked too picturesque to be real. I think the Red Sea is my second favorite body of water, after the Mediterranean. The water was cool and a perfect, clear blue. You could see tropical fish swimming and even some small coral reefs.
Our hotel was in a sketchy little alley, but I tend to like that sort of thing. It was no Movenpick, but it was fine for one night. It was clean and had no bugs or mysterious stains on the sheets and blankets, which is all I ask for. My classmate and I were basically huge bums for 2 days. On the first day we went to a beach that was cheap (and consequently rather crappy) and just stayed all day; swimming, reading, sleeping, etc. Despite the creepy drunk man who kept trying to talk to me and touch me, it was a good day. That evening we just walked around for a bit, had dinner and went out for a drink. The next day, we decided that we were going to stop being so cheap and pay a bit more to use a nice beach at one of the fancy hotels. We went to the Intercontinental and discovered that using the beach for the day is 25 JD (about $35) PER PERSON. I laughed in the guy's face when he said this and we started to walk away. He called us back and said he was going to make a "top-secret deal" and let us both in for 25 JD. We agreed, and entered the resort area. Generally, really over the top fancy stuff is just not my aesthetic, but doing the beach at a 5 star hotel was awesome and was a nice treat. They had beautiful swimming pools, spacious and comfortable picnic and sitting areas, an outdoor restaurant and bar and plenty of cushioned lounge chairs, umbrellas and tables on the beach. There was even a waiter walking around the people on the beach and taking orders while classical and world music was playing. Everything was just really nice and relaxing, especially since there were only old rich Europeans and no Arab men to harass us! The best part was that on the way out when we went to pay, the guy told us to forget about it and let us go. Talk about being extremely lucky.
This week and next week are all exams, and then I will be coming home on Friday. I am beyond excited, but nervous about how I am going to make visits and convince my new co op to lie about my start date so I don't get in more trouble with Drexel. Returning will be chaotic, but everything will be okay afterwards. There are some things I am going to miss from here... the wonderful tea, flying down the road in minibuses blaring Arabic music, the kind Jordanians I met who actually made me feel welcome, the cheap DVDs and my professors. I will also miss my family, even though they annoyed me sometimes. I never knew it before, but there can be something oddly comforting in the everyday chaos and tribulations of typical family life. It was definately a good experience living with them, even though I'm certain they think I am really weird and boring.
Expect one more entry from me before my return. I have been trying to figure out a way to accurately explain how I feel about Jordan and my time here. I am not really sure at this point and I need to reflect in order to prepare for the bombardment of questions that will soon be upon me. I have been sugarcoating a lot of things here for the sake of some peoples' feelings, but the truth will come out soon enough.
Take care and see you all soon, insha'allah.
Thursday, May 1, 2008
4 months too late... :)
My host sister Najwan, host brother Nimer and their friend ZaidToday a schoolmate and I went to the Hammamat Ma'in-- natural hot springs located near the Dead Sea. It was a relaxing day and a lot of fun, thought we didn't really need to stay as long as we did. There are 3 waterfalls in the place, nice picnic areas and saunas and closed in baths for women and men. I had never been to natural hot springs before, but it was really cool. The water in the main area was a perfect temperature and the waterfall cooled everything down a bit. There was also a small, hallowed-out terrace with a flow of really hot water and created a kind of natural steam room. Despite the lovely scent of sulfur, this was a really nice little alcove to hide in for a little while. The second waterfall was smaller and the water was extremely hot- around 150 degrees Fahrenheit. We only stuck our feet in, but ended up hanging around this area for awhile because it was quiet and not crowded. The last waterfall and spring was just for women, though being a foreigner it was fine for us to be in the main waterfall. It was nice lounging around in hot mineral water for the day, trying not to worry about school and life too much. I ended up playing with a 10 year old Jordanian girl for quite awhile and it was a lot of fun. My paleness astounded her... :)
Next weekend I might go to Aqaba for the night since I haven't been there yet. It's a beach resort in the south of Jordan on the Red Sea and seems like it could make for a good overnight trip, depending on my finances.
I also need to say that I NEVER want to see a pita again. NEVER. I feel the same about pita as I did about porridge upon departure from Mother Russia...
Other than this, same old same old. We are just wrapping up the end of the semester. I am getting REALLY anxious to come home. I desperately need some Guitar Hero, salad and my bike Doris B. Anthony. My stomach is also begging for mercy, but that is another story for another day. Of course, I miss you all as well and can't wait to see you and regain a modicum of normalcy in my life (temporarily).
See you all in a few weeks. Wooooo!
Monday, April 28, 2008
Eid Sayyid!
Today I went over to my Jordanian friend's house again, for the second time. She studies English and Linguistics at the University and we met at the language center. She and her mom and aunt are probably the 3 kindest people I have met in my life... seriously. I really enjoy going to their home and visiting with them. They treat me with such a high level of respect and kindness that it makes up for all the horrible Jordanians I have encountered. I wish more people were like them; peaceful, selfless and with genuine hearts and minds. It was a fun afternoon sitting in their garden, talking and laughing and poking around in the flowers. They always feed me WAY too much (to the point where it hurts to breathe after the meal... no joke), but I have the rest of the week to work it off at the gym so big deal. I suppose I can handle one day every once in awhile of eating enough food to feed an African country.
Things are good, generally. Though as the weather gets hotter and my bank account gets lower, "Is it May 23 yet?!" persistently flashes in my mind like a neon sign. I know that I've been here for too long when I almost get into at least one serious car accident pretty much daily and don't even bat an eyelash about it anymore. We have another long weekend, during which I will hopefully be more productive, and after that it is just about 3 weeks left to go. Finals are soon and I need to get serious about studying for them. Sometimes I need to remind myself that I am actually getting credit for this... :)
PS: Soon I will be going on a souvenir spree. Any requests? Just comment here or email me.
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Ya habibi...
In reference to the list I posted last, the desert and camel stuff was all in Wadi Rum, in the south of Jordan. It was a fabulous trip. The first day we went on a crazy Jeep ride through the desert- flying over sand dunes and everything. There were 60 of us on the trip, so I imagine we looked like the Mujihadeen tooling through the desert while standing in the beds of the jeeps screaming and wearing kuffiyehs. This when many of us got to experience a real, huge sand dune for the first time; thus making it a "legitimate" desert in my opinion. Sand dunes are one of the funnest things ever. We were running, diving, jumping and rolling down it and it was a blast. We also got to watch the sunset from the top of it and it was an amazing sight with all of the red sand and mountains in view.
After that, we went to our desert Bedouin camp. It was a really cool set up- a big fire in the middle with a guy serving tea and argeelah, with low benches and tables set up around it in a circle. The tents were set up in rows behind this seating area, and the paths they cleared in the sand were lit by small lanterns sitting on the ground. The food was wonderful- lots of fresh vegetables and salad and really nice kebabs. There was music and dancing to keep people entertained. Bedouin tents are really neat. They are a system of poles and really thick tarp-like rugs that they weave out of goat fur. The point is to make it as easy as possible to transport, since they are nomadic. They were rather big inside and they put beds directly on the sand. It was fun, but so cold in the evening. After we ate and sat around for a bit, a few of us decided to take a walk through the desert in the night with no flashlight (unfortunately the moon wasn't bright the night we were there). Probably pretty dumb, but it was fun. We attempted to make a fire from twigs and camel dung but were unsuccessful. The desert is so beautiful at night. The stars are very clear and bright, and we all saw many shooting stars. The next day was full of camel riding desert adventuring.
Camel caravan
The following weekend, some friends and I took an informal trip to Irbid and Umm Qais in northern Jordan, near the Syrian border. Umm Qais is an old Roman town with lots of ruins and nice fields to walk through. It was unbelievably relaxing to climb around on old columns and olive trees while looking at Palestine and the Sea of Galilee in the distance.
On Saturday, some friends and I spent the whole day at the Dead Sea- perhaps the most interesting body of water of all time. It is so weird how you float in it. We went out really far where you can no longer touch the bottom and were floating in positions as if there was an invisible chair there. I was also floating with my body perfectly straight, not touching the ground at all. It was the weirdest thing.... but very relaxing and fun. Because there is so much salt in it, the water feels really oily and has a very glossy appearance on top. It is very serene because you can just lay there and float and there are no waves or maritime creatures lurking in seaweed to attack your feet. Of course we went all out like true tourists and covered ourselves with that glorious black Dead Sea mud for a skin treatment. We looked like Kenyans for a few hours, baking in the sun with the mud on. It really is good for your skin, though. After washing it off, my skin was so soft and clean looking. And if that wasn't enough zany shenanigans, we were then entertained by a group of 40 or so old Italian people who were yelling, floating in the sea and just being awesome in general. At one point, a group of men from the group were all floating side by side, linking arms and singing songs in Italian at the top of their lungs. They totally made my day.
Today was an interesting day at good old JU. Some friends and I came back from lunch and noticed there was a big commotion at the main gate of the university. There was an ambulance, people everyone and rocks all over the ground. We found out from another student a bit later that there was a fight between two tribes over a girl (which happens all the time at the university). This was a really big fight, though.... and a rock fight, nonetheless (hence why there were rocks all over the ground). It was premeditated because there aren't any rocks around the main gate- it is all paved. It's kind of sad, but you have to laugh a little. A massive rock fight between two huge groups of people? Come on... I'm laughing right now as I write this. I wish I could have seen it all going down. My friend said there were people climbing on this massive fence and throwing rocks.
Today was the Orthodox Palm Sunday, which means this coming weekend is Easter! I'm excited to see what is involved with this. We were invited to a relative's house on Sunday for dinner, so it should be fun... especially since I have become an excellent fake Catholic :)
Also, we have a new member of the family. Her name is Sasha and she is a husky puppy. Here she is doing what she does best, attacking feet and biting everything.
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Mezhnoon times in the good old HKJ...
- I rode a camel in the desert for an entire afternoon.
- I rolled/dived down a sand dune.
- I camped in the desert in a Bedouin tent.
- I was within walking distance of Palestine and the Sea of Galilee.
- I forded a river in a canyon.
- I rappelled down a 60ft. waterfall
- I saw a French man get naked and change his clothes in the middle of a parking lot. I guess he forgot he was in the MIDDLE EAST...
- I discovered that drinking Arabic coffee is probably not a good life choice; especially after a weird dinner.
- I tasted the Dead Sea a little. I mean, just a small drop on the tip of my finger. It was -the- worst thing I have ever put in my mouth, hands down. Imagine the saltiest thing you've ever had and multiply that by about 3 million, then add a sour, dead taste to that. A voila...
- I went to an Arab hospital and got a shot in my backside.
Saturday, April 5, 2008
The aftermath of Spring Break...
Larnaca
Felix on the beach in Larnaca
My friend and I mostly stayed in Larnaca, but one day we made a day trip to the capital,
Downtown Nicosia
Downtown Nicosia
Turkish occupied side of Nicosia
Turkish occupied side of Nicosia
Another interesting point about
In all honesty, coming back to
On a more random note, something I have noticed when dealing with my professors, is that people outside of
I also need to say that I –hate- how Arabs suck their teeth when you say something stupid or wrong, or if something bad happens. It is just normal part of non-verbal communication here, but for the life of me, I can’t get used to it. Everytime someone does it I feel that one vein in my head getting closer and closer to popping and I just want to slap them across the face with a raw T-bone steak or something.
Anyhow, I hope everyone is well. I will make an effort to update this sooner. I miss you all a lot. T-minus one month and a half…J
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Ya Allahi!
I will be leaving for Cyprus this Friday until the 24th. I'm really excited to go somewhere completely different and be out of the Mid East for a few days. It will be a nice vacation. Lying on the beach of the Mediterranean, eating wonderful Greek food, and trying not to think about the conversion rate from the Euro to the dollar. Anyhow, it will be great to relax and escape the nasty men and cigarette smoke. If my funds permit, I might try to go to one of the Gulf States or the Emirates a few weekends after this. I think it would be cool to see, though I would probably get angry-- especially in Dubai. All of that opulence and obnoxiously blatant displays of wealth while people starve in villages.
On another note, I need to say that Americans get a bad reputation when it comes to watching TV. Arabs watch more TV than any American I have ever seen. Seriously... they are obsessed with the satellite dish and get damn near every channel ever. If you see any photos I've taken of the city, take a moment to notice how many satellite dishes there are. Pretty much all my family does is watch TV, and this is what I've been hearing consistently from other students in home stays. It's not as if it is on just for noise and they are doing other things simultaneously, oh no. They are actually watching it. When we had that big snow storm, the satellite dish went out temporarily and you would have thought the world ended. My host mom even sent the youngest son up on the roof a few times to clear the snow off of it :P So funny.
Cell phones are another point of interest here. Every Jordanian has at least 2 functioning cell phones. This includes Bedouins living in caves in the middle of the desert because yes, you do get a full signal out there, believe it or not. Chances are their phones are nicer than any one that you have. No one has really been able to explain to me why people have 2. I guess they just like them... along with the satellite dish, of course.
Politically, things are less than ideal here. Generally there is something going on in one or 2 countries, it fizzles out and starts somewhere else... but now, the metaphorical shit (sorry Grandma) has the potential to hit the fan all across the board. Travel to Syria is now banned in addition to Israel, Palestine, Sinai Peninsula, Lebanon... and obviously places like Iraq, Saudi Arabia (only because they don't give tourist visas), etc. Tensions are high in Jordan because fuel prices are set to rise again and because of the situation in Gaza. Many Jordanians are from or have family there so there have been many protests on campus and around the city. A German tourist was stabbed downtown last weekend. It was an isolated incident and people aren't really sure if there was any reason behind it, but fortunately, the stabber was caught just hours after it happened. The Muhabarrat scares me, but it does have its advantages! It was on Friday afternoon, just after the Husseini Mosque let out. Since we arrived, we have been told to avoid downtown at this time on Fridays. There are a lot of people and they might be fired up over what the imam said during the prayers. Unfortunately, this is something a tourist might not really know/think about. The German didn't die, but it's still scary. Despite all of this, don't worry. Jordan is really the best place to be in this area, in terms of safety.
Happy Easter to everyone! I hope you all have a nice holiday. Eat some ham and dye an egg for me :)